Transitions are hard if we fight them. Does a leaf fight every fall because it’s afraid to detach from it’s place of safety on the branch while the wind is tugging it gently to the ground? Maybe but I dont think so, it is part of the cycle. Do birds worry every year when it’s time to migrate, I don’t think so they go with the flow. Why do we fight each change …there is life and death and what is in between seems to be transition. It is life yet we continue to have difficulty accepting change and learning to cope with them because we are fearful. The biggest choices in life seem to be beyond our control. Some of the greatest gifts come during and after change.